View From A Top 3

personal view by Gene LeMastre

A Dom searches for a submissive to own knowing that owning her will require much time and effort. When he thinks he may have found her, many times he is faced with a broken shell beaten down by the abuse of those who came before him. He must feel that if not right away, eventually she will be worthy of the extra time and effort that owning her will require.

Inside that abuse hardened crust the woman has crawled into, he thinks he sees a beautiful diamond heart so he patiently chips away the crust and seeks to repair the heart. Her-self esteem and feelings of self-worth may have been trampled and soiled into almost non-existence. She may have physical scars but the emotional ones will be much harder to repair.

After much hard work and time he finds he is making progress. Then for some reason she falls right back into despair. More work and she is brought back only to collide at that inevitable intersection where she doubts her submissive nature and does not know which way to turn. He very well may loose her at this point in the journey when even though she will never be happy, she may choose the easy way out and go vanilla. Sometimes the extra responsibility and effort that is required to truly own another human being seems to outweigh any possible future gain.

For the Dom that is more stubborn than the submissive is broken, for the Dom that is willing to tenderly mend his broken treasure, for this Dom is the prize of a slave with almost unlimited love, submission, devotion and service. It is a big responsibility to own a human being. It is an even greater responsibility if not only her body is owned but also her mind and very soul. IMO if a Dom is going to take on that much responsibility he may as well have the best slave/submissive so he can be truly proud of what he owns.

My soft and I have been fortunate enough to survive this journey so far, so we press ahead not knowing just how far we can go in our lifetime…..

Gene